The Heart of Hope
My life was one of a volatile beginning. This journey is for so many who suffer in silence because of the immobilising shame, doubt, and the incapacity caused by another human being.
In my story, a young girl is placed in the hands of a keeper— not a husband—at a very young age. Not yet a woman, she has three children, an extra brain, no education, and no support! My eleven-year-old changed my life course when he phoned the police to protect his mum, and that was where my real life began.
I was tasked with raising three children basically on my own, educating myself, and discovering the art of survival. My consciously empowering overview (CEO) tested me and my faith in him and in myself. The fear that had served for so long as the bars that kept me trapped had to be penetrated. I was responsible for three lives, as well as my own, even though I was a child myself, still growing up and trying to find my identity.
Through it all, I managed to buy a home, educate my children, and start my own business. I also learnt and studied all I needed to know to protect myself. I was a single mother who had to do it all. There was great trauma in the emotional roller coaster that was my life, and trying to learn how to cope when there were no real solutions was a daunting challenge. How could I build a secure life for the four of us? The GFC came and went, and like so many, I fell victim to the banks. The only difference was that I won.
No one has the right to bully you—not even a bank! My motivation was simple: I wanted to know what I had to know, not just what those organisations wanted me to know. I had many mentors in life, people who taught me more survival skills and how to trust my own instincts.
However, my story illustrates how my emotional DNA allowed me to be manipulated and blinded by a professional. Luckily, my tenacity gave me the ability to overcome even those attempts to control and sabotage me. I had to also learn how to deal with my THE BOOK own internal critic and saboteur; up to that point, I’d never understood what was going on with me internally. The mechanical robot just kept going, without any lubrication, and it became harder and harder to cope.
For every woman, emotional, physical, and financial awareness are crucial, no matter her history or her environment, and this is clearly indicated in this story. We have a tendency to sign documents and give up our inherent rights because of our emotional DNA (E-DNA), which can leave us in a vulnerable position and be a detriment to our families. My story is one of many, but I learnt to read between the lines and get to the truth of protecting my assets (ME) by learning and doing what others failed to teach me!
The Pretty Ugly Truth
The pages in the book take you on a reflective journey of your life while absorbing the words written. A controversial view on Live Identity Finance and the Emotions created during the processes of life.
We are all unique and yet somehow insist on conforming to the beliefs of others.
Life is about preventing yourself from waking up in someone else’s dream.
A guide to touch on the topics less spoken of and the introduction to a series of books to follow.
Dealing with Growing up issues to marriage, parenting, separation, and grief. They will include a detailed exposé on the everyday unimaginable situation not spoken about in fear of taking away someone else’s financial gains.
You can begin to advocate for your own LIFE, with the right resources and confidence.
Banking Beyond Men
Banking Beyond Men will open your mind to the unjust actions of Bankers, the ones we do not suspect and the people we trust with our financial futures and that of our families.
We take you through the history and culture of Banking as you discover that not much has changed and that we do not really understand the documents we are actually signing. The stories are based on true events and only names have been changed, however all have had a successful outcome even after they were made Bankrupt and lost everything.
Its these matters that have lead to the formation of programs and workshops to educate woman how to take responsibility and control of their financial future while remaining supportive and nurturing to their families.We explain the unknown about the banking culture as we prepare you for the undisclosed events that may occur in any economic climate.
Life can be overwhelming no matter what part of the Globe you call home, it is even harder when you sign documents without understanding the language used to manipulate you into a debt that you may not be able to handle. Many times woman sign documents to support their partners out of a sense of duty or obligation.
You hold the key to actually surviving when the Banks decides to call up their loan, which they can at any time without notice to you. Banking Beyond Men provides you an easy-to-understand explanation of the many Policies and Procedures that Banks disguise in their documentation and a banker never truly explains.
This Book is an introduction to a system that was created centuries ago and has remained the same, only modernized for today’s society. Now we will follow through with a series of books to provide viable solutions for everyone to avoid an Abuse that is never spoken about.We are all private about our financial affairs however we trust a stranger as we sign documents that this stranger instructs you to.
Don’t be left at the mercy of a stranger. Take responsibility and control of your Life.